A conversational party game with roles for friends to learn how to better support one another.
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FRIENDS ARE OUR MIRROR

FRIENDSHIP GAME

  • 100 Questions

    Introspective & Connective
  • 10 Role Cards

    Inspire a Conversation
  • Small Talk

    White Cards for All to Answer
  • Action Cards

    Action Cards to Embody
  • Real Talk

    Orange Cards: Deep, Deeper, Deepest
  • Instructions

    Create a Safe Space by Reading the Host Statement Aloud

How to play

  • Gather 2-10 humans—longtime friends or new friends. First order to play, everyone must honor this as a safe space. What is said in the game stays in the game. Come with an open heart, open mind, and insatiable curiosity.

  • Start with the white small talk cards, where all players answer each card. Draw 2-5 cards. We are not meant to live this life alone—life is meant to be shared, so learn from each other.

  • This game is a conversation, intended to prompt dialogue to learn how to better support others. All players draw one black role card. And respond from your role’s mindset. There are guided prompts on the back to inspire you. Your role is not a secret. You will switch roles frequently.

  • Draw an orange card. Answer the question from your own experience. All questions are introspective, illuminating, and at times intimate. Questions have three different depths (deep, deeper, and deepest) to dive get to know yourself and friendships. You will find that we are meant to answer the questions we draw. Growth in the form of telling stories, questions, and actions.

  • This is where the diving deeper happens. After the storyteller shares their story, the group responds with support from their role. Do your best to support the storyteller from your role. When the storyteller wants to move on, simply move the deck to the next person.

  • Rotate roles every round or storyteller. Play as many rounds as you want.

  • After the game ends, reflect. Any lingering feelings, impactful thoughts, and lasting connections from the game night. Sit with yourself. What do you love most about your Trauma Drama?

We all play a role in our friends' journey...

but do you know how they
want to be supported?

How can I support you?

We all have different roles in our friendships, and this game helps us explore how to support each other.

This game is a conversation, intended to prompt dialogue to learn how to better support our friends. We believe emotional intelligence is learned through play.

Open and honest vulnerability requires support. Which means that we must make the storyteller feel heard, seen and accepted. Its vital for growth.

  • 1/5

    Therapist

    Your role is to create a safe space through reassurance.
    1. Ask Why?
    2. How does this make you feel?
    3. How are you coping?
  • 2/5

    Wise Elder

    Your role is to embody peaceful zen and provide wisdom.
    1. I hear you.
    2. How can I support you?
    3. You are doing the best you know how.
  • 3/5

    Contrarian

    Your role is to play devil’s advocate and challenge assumptions.
    1. Sounds like you are behaving like stereotype...
    2. Yes but consider bias...
    3. Maybe you need to re-evaluate the way you think about...
  • 4/5

    Investigator

    Your role is to explore & question for underlying depth.
    1. Anything from your past affecting you?
    2. What was the trigger?
    3. What drives you at your core?
  • 5/5

    Coach

    Your role is to motivate 1st actionable step.

    1. What did you learn about yourself from this experience?
    2. How to let go of perfection 
& embrace your growth?
    3. How can you 
get started today?
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GAME RULES

  • Stay Curious

    Actively listen to connect.
  • Open Heart

    No winners or losers in life.
  • Open Mind

    This is where bridging worlds starts.
Growth looks good on you

Reviews

  • ★★★★★
    This game expands people's empathy capacity. Emotional intelligence is a learned skill that we learn through play. Like when we were kids.
    Sheela, Hypnotherapist
  • ★★★★★
    It made me feel less alone :)
    Aahika, First Timer
  • ★★★★★
    I love the range of questions because of the surprise element of not knowing what question comes next
    Imma
  • ★★★★★
    After I was still curious about people's stories and want to know more about how they felt, dealt and more.
    Jane
  • ★★★★★
    I couldn’t have naturally been a bad bitch to y’all if I didn’t try to intentionally be one! 😂 It was funnn
    Tanesha, Contrarian

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